I recently attended the Alexander McQueen exhibit at the Grand Rapids Art Museum (GRAM), and it was a profound experience. Titled “Lee Alexander McQueen & Ann Ray: Rendez-Vous,” the exhibit offers a unique lens into the life of one of fashion’s most enigmatic and visionary creators. Through the intimate photographs of Ann Ray, McQueen’s close friend and confidant, the exhibit unveils an intensely personal narrative of artistry, passion, and loss. It runs until January 12, 2025, and I can’t recommend it enough for anyone seeking inspiration in art, fashion, or their journey of self-discovery.
The Layers of McQueen’s Legacy
Alexander McQueen was a designer who poured his soul into his creations. He didn’t just make clothes; he told stories. His designs were bold, fierce, and unapologetically emotional. He wanted women to feel untouchably powerful in his garments—his love for women and his understanding of their strength was palpable in every stitch.
The exhibit captures this essence beautifully. Ann Ray’s photographs show McQueen as he indeed was—vulnerable, focused, and deeply human. She chronicled his life with over 32,000 negatives, entrusted by McQueen himself with the words, “You have my life in pictures.” These images give us a rare glimpse of the man behind the brand—his moments of quiet concentration, the joy of creation, and the weight of his struggles.
McQueen’s life ended tragically just ten days after his mother’s passing. His deep connection to his mother was a grounding force, and her loss left an irreplaceable void. Walking through the exhibit with my mom and grandma, I couldn’t help but reflect on the impact of parental love—how it anchors us and shapes our lives. Its absence can feel earth-shattering for those fortunate enough to have that consistent presence. It made me think of my relationship with my mother, and I promised her, as we walked through the exhibit together, that I would honor her memory by continuing to find joy and purpose in my life even after she passes.
The Intersection of Style and Healing
As I moved through the exhibit, I was struck by how McQueen used fashion to channel his emotions and tell stories. I find a similar sense of healing and connection in my work with textiles and color. Each piece I create reflects a moment—a day when I decided to step away from the screen, get messy with my hands, and create something tangible. Like McQueen, I see my creations as remnants of joy and peace, reminders of the moments I felt most alive.
At its core, fashion is about self-expression. It’s about finding the colors, textures, and silhouettes that resonate with who you are. McQueen’s pieces ranged from fiercely untouchable gowns to comfortable, personal garments his closest friends wore. This spectrum reminds us that style isn’t just about how we look—it’s about how we feel and the stories we want to tell.
Finding Your Style
Inspired by McQueen’s legacy, I want to invite others to explore their style and creativity. My Crafting in Community events and private sessions are opportunities to experiment with color, texture, and design in a way that feels uniquely you. Whether you’re upcycling a cherished piece or creating something entirely new, adding color can be transformative.
Like McQueen, you have the power to tell your own story through your wardrobe. Every item you dye, sew, or style becomes a part of your narrative—a way to express who you are and what matters to you.
Why You Should Visit the Exhibit
Ann Ray’s photographs remind us of the beauty of connection and the importance of honoring the legacies of those we love. Her care in preserving McQueen’s memory is a testament to their friendship and the power of storytelling. Seeing McQueen’s world through her lens brought me to tears—it’s a celebration of creativity, love, and the enduring impact of one life on another.
If you can, I urge you to visit the exhibit at the GRAM. It’s a moving experience that will leave you reflecting on your journey, the relationships that shape you, and the creative legacy you want to leave behind.
And when you’re ready to add your splash of color to the world, book a session and join me in the studio. Let’s create something beautiful together—something that tells your story.
